Meks ada sorang kawan ni tau, let us call him C. Die ala-ala taste to this guy la kan, by the name of B. Without knowing this particular guy is in a dating and to be husband-husband relationship with another friend of mine, which I named him as an A. But the problem makin menjadi when this B guy layan my fren the C one. Reply the message without telling the C that he is actually dating with A (hanjeng idak?). And then bile C dapat tahu about kehadiran A yang lebih lama, so he back off la from the love triangle. And C began frustrated and down. And to add some spice, the B guy seem innocent tanpa rasa sebarang bersalah (or may be he never knew that C is having a crush or I would say completely in love with him). Sian kan?!

Jadi, for today, kita akan membincangkan topik yang bertajuk : How do you get over someone you love completely when they do not feel the same way? **Babi tak ini title and topic? LOL!!!! Dan meks pasti banyak yang akan rasa bahawa entry ini adalah sesuatuh yang berguna pada masa ini kan!! Dibuat khususu untuk golongan bernama C**

Setelah penat menelaah di laman web (merata meks mencari bahan occay - research dibuat dengan gigih dan tekun), meks pun berjumpa dengan beberapa beberapa tips yang boleh meks berkongsi bersama untuk kegunaan semua orang yang frustrated, patah hati dan sebagainya.

• Uols tanya pada diri sendiri uols, "Apakah sebenarnya dibenak pemikiran jantan keparat ittiew?". Uols, in a relationship it takes to people to extablish a relationship. Macam peribahasa melayu, bertepuk sebelah tangan masakan berbunyi (tetapi kalau tepuk meja, walaupun sebelah tangan berbunyi apa?). Evn tho uols feel the way that you do, may it was meant to be this way. So girls, SAVE YOUR LOVE FOR SOMEONE WHO FEELS THE SAME YOU DO!


• Tell yourself girls that you deserve better than him. Uols kene beritahu pada diri uols sendiri : "He isn't worth my love, he's too young to realize what he's doing to me so I guess that's that." So, dengan erti katalain, uols dapat tingkatkan lagi confidence level uols (so tak la rasa down sgt!) dan salahkan perangai die uols. Hanj kan?! LOL!!!


• **I'm so in love with this no 3 tips** Girls, actually in this situation, it is not about getting overof someone, tetapi issue yang paling pentign adalah FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF! Seyesly girls. In matter of fact, actually meks baru aja alaa berpatah hati (tetapi meks bukanlah orang didalam cerita di atas tu nah!! ) tetapi lepas baca these tips, I am so stupid for feeling down for that stupid idiot. Actually it is about knowing that you are the most important and you need to be happy. Adn seyesly, if you feel good about yourself, if the other person didn't feelt he same way as you do, it doesn't matter!


• Next tip macam hanj sikit uols. But it do help a bit la kan. Occay, relationship yang ideal is when 2 people love each other the same, at the same pace but however life is never ideal kan? Betul?! So, in order to get this kind of relationship you need to be patience! Uols kenelah buat keputusan samada hendak menungu ataupun teruskan kehidupan, dinch die uols! Jika uols rasakan bahawa your feeling are for real, than tunggu but make sure uols din;t freak him out with the feelings ittiew. If uols menunggu, it may give you some hope to know that she can see you inthe same lights, just not that so quickly. Make your decision right occcay girls?


• Uols, meks faham bahawa being in love with someone who does not feel the same way as you do SUCK! But this is not a problem. Uols boleh perbetulkan. Senang sajork. If the person do not love you when you completely in love with him, WALK OFF!! Uols jangan langung memberikan die priviledge of friendship cos uols akan suck yourself back into the delusion. nanti mesti terpkikir balik mende alah ni. Sengsara balik. Do thing to bury yourself with work and keep searching for what you really want and need. For the gays, uols leh la pergi urs-urs or ke otot-otot.


• Uols, next, uols have to remember that love is a peculiar thing. There is an almost ludicros asymetry between two people. Sat nah! How I want to simply these. occay. Here is the situation. For example you ada a group of fren which you rapat with these particular member of the group. In your friendship-list, he is on the top of the rank. But are you sure he will put your name on the top of his list? KAN?! Get it or not? And if you truly, truly , tryuly in loved with someone, then you'd be able to realise it is OK if they don't love you back. A true love (dalam definisi meks la kan) means gives and expects nothing in return. Ikhlas untuk menyanyangi.


• Uols kepada mereka yang sering direject (which is not me la kan - tetap nak maintain kan! LOL!!) mesti ala-ala pelik when you hear someone say move on things will be fine, tul idak?! That is true darling! No matter how much you love him, he will never loves you back dear. Daripada uols wondering apa yang terjadi, for all those which went wrong, batter jangan bazir masa pikir mende tue. Better uols just say out loud, "He is just not into me" pada diri sendiri. Kalau uols dok kejar untuk menawan hati die macam orang bodoh, actually you are closing your doors for other poeople who might love you back.


• Uols, actually it is very stupid for us to chase over someone who do not love back becos he may have reason why. There are alot of reason why he is not in the love yet (for that moment). Mungkin he is incapable of it in romantic sens, mati pucuk, a distoeted view of freeedom, desire to stay young forever and perhaps, a deep unwillingness to give themselves over to another (aka selffish?). So perlu ke uols kejar or chase after a person with all these sifat-sifat mazmudah? Perlu ke uols letakkan harga diri dan taraf uols setaraf dengan makhluk yang hina ini? Hargh Tuih tidak perlukan!


• Meks memahami bawah masa ini adalah waktu waktu genting which kita feel very weak. Betul? Nak habaq kat orang lain takut depa bagi advice ayng salah. nak habaq or luahkan rasa kat diri sendiri nanti orang kata gila. Jadi apa yang patut buat? BLOGGING!!! Write down how you feel. You do not need to blogging or write entry to let other people to knwo about ur love life. You can start to write a diary or a journal or the best, you write down your feelings (sambil nangis tak pa nak carut die sumpah seranah pun tak pa) and then simpan kertas-kertas tue. Lepas uols dah get rid of him, baca balik surat ittiew untuk memastikan uols rasa geram, sentiasa about him dan rasa marah marah akt him - get tid of the love feeling, replace it with anger and then burn the journal that you made. Seyesly! Puas hati! Meks dah buat sendiri!~


• Or uols leh try a reverse style of treatment. asa tengah sedih sedih kemaruk chenta nie, uols nanges puas puas, dengar sad song, wrtie sampai patah lenguh tangan, sumpah seranah die, baling bom botol kat rumah that guy sampai you feel tired and judge how stupid you are for being griving for a very long time. Start a new chapter. Treat it as a divorce. FORCE youself to move on and meet new people or in other words, meks panggil new candicates. LOL!! Hiks! If there is no ladder or stairs for you toclimb to the next level of life, built one!


• Last but not least : "You never stop loving someone, you just learn to live without them."

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Regards with love,

posted by Isis Natasha @ 14:34